sexta-feira, 27 de agosto de 2010

New York - Family (cont) 2

Girls da mha life, como estão????
OLha, eu já pensei de tudo, mas ontem recebi outro email da família de NYC e tive a conclusão que de fato não dá, não dá, são 3 kids, uma com autismo, e com tantas regras eu VOU PIRAR E FICAR ETERNAMENTE DEPRE, achei a mãe mto sacana. No domingo ela me perguntou se eu tinha amigas nos EUA, e eu claro, disse que sim, ontem ela me manda o seguinte email e com as seguintes regras: (dá um ligue)

Hello future au pair

I know you have received our family application and essay. The essay may not have provided answers to a lot of your questions; here is a brief outline of some answers:

· We need an au pair to start as soon as possible, we have never had an au pair before so the family is a little nervous but excited.
· Our house is near the park and library. It is also near several local colleges (York college, Queens College, Laguardia Community College and Queensboro Community College)and there is public transportation near by.
· The children have lots of friends and family members nearby
· We intend to have weekly conferences with you to ensure that everything is going well.
· You shall be firm but loving with the children. The children are not to be spanked or hit for transgressions. Time-outs shall be used as the method for discipline - all punishment is the Parents' responsibility
· We do have an extra car but at this moment we do not anticipate the au pair having to drive the children any place.
· Schedule : The schedule may change weekly but we anticipate it being: Monday, Tuesday and Friday from 9am to 7pm, Wednesday, Thursday and Saturday from 2pm to 7pm. Sunday will be your day off.
· Au Pair’s room: The au pair bed room is located on the second floor of the house, next door and across from the children’s bedrooms. In the room there is a full size bed with a dresser, television, dvd player and cable box. You will have access to a laptop and internet.
· Children schedule: They usually get up at 7 and get ready for the day, Nap time is between 12 and 2 Bed time is between 8 and 9

· House rules: The house rules are as follows:

1. Curfew is at 1am - (MEU PAU HOST PRA VC)
2. No visitors, except on prior notification and approval (2 PAUS PRA VC HOST)
3. No entertaining in the bed room - (COMO VOU VER O CANAL DE PLAYBOY¬¬)
4. No long distance or collect calls, except in the case of an emergency or previous notification. (afff)
5. Only short and occasional local calls (during nap times or other free times). (MAGINA, VOU FICAR O DIA TODO NO TEL)
6. No unapproved rides in any cars. (HAHAHAHAHAHA)
7. The house is to be kept locked at all times. (NOSSAAA, PRISÃO)
8. Smoking is prohibited. (JURA)
9. Drinking alcohol is prohibited.(SOU VICIADA, NÃO DÁ)
10. Report any suspicious visitors or phone calls immediately. (REALLY?)
11. Report immediately any falls or injuries (including bumps, bruises, cuts, illnesses, etc.) occurring to the children.

· Responsibilities and duties:

1. Meals: The preparation and serving of healthy breakfast and lunch, and dinner. During the week, you will prepare a list of needed items to be presented to the Parents on the last workday of each week
2. Dressing - including changing of diapers, and hygiene. Shall ensure that the children are properly dressed for the activities in which they are engaged, and the weather that they are exposed to. You may be required to give the children baths from time to time. You will help the children learn about personal hygiene to include: learning to dress themselves, potty training, brushing teeth after each meal, etc., as well as aiding them in learning to clean their messes when they are done playing, etc.
3. Learning Activities: You will strive to teach the children proper speech, the basics of counting, their ABCs, shapes, colors, courtesy, sharing, and neatness, as their development permits.
4. Nap-time: You shall do your best to ensure that the children get their proper nap time.
5. Recreation: You shall play with the children to encourage speech and personality development. In addition, You will ensure that all play is supervised, and that the children are never left unattended and without direct supervision.
6. Transportation: There will be no unapproved rides in any cars, and no unapproved trips. You may take the children on walks to and from the park, etc. in close proximity to the home.
7. House Keys: . The keys may not be copied or given to anyone else.
8. Guidelines for Releasing Children: Under NO circumstances will you release a child to any relative, neighbor, family friend or friend's parent without the Parents' direct authorization to do so.
9. General Household Maintenance:
1. Kitchen: Daily cleaning of the kitchen area, of all highchairs and dishes that are used by the family
2. Play Area: Daily picking-up of toys and clothes in the children's play areas.
3. Sweeping/Mopping of kitchen floors after meals (or as needed) and child room’s floor.
4. Garbage: responsible for the emptying of the diaper pail, and trash cans in child’s bedroom, child’s bathroom and kitchen. All garbage bags are to be placed in the dumpster.
5. Children's Bedrooms: responsible for changing the bedding as well as the linen for the changing table. Diaper basket is to be stocked with diapers. Closet is to be well organized and toys are to be placed in the appropriate location (i.e. toy bin or closet).
6. Children's Bathroom: make sure that clothes are removed to the hamper, and counters and mirrors are wiped dry after hand washing and teeth brushing.

5. Laundry: responsible for the clothes/bedding of the children. This includes changing, washing, folding and putting away the clothing and linens.




FOLGA APENAS NO DOMINGO???? AS MENINAS NÃO PODEM NANAR EM CASA????? SINTO MTO por ELA E (DONA PAULINHA TIGRESA, QUERO MTO FICAR PERTO DE VC NOS ESTATES, MAS DESSE JEITO NÃO VAI ROLAR), essa host fez de proposito essas regras, e não é pq eles são cristões que tem que me colocar numa jaula sem poder respirar ¬¬
Só se tem o domingo em NYC pra ir no teatro, neh? Pq balada, NO WAY, meus shows de ROCK, no way .... Sorry, mas assim não rola, e eu vou dispensar sem dó!

Quero uma família SIM, mas desse jeito não é família é prisão em terra americana, to brava !!!
Até um próximo post =(((

6 comentários:

  1. nao concordeii com algumas coisas...
    Parece ser abusada...
    mas tbm temos que pensar pelo outro ladoo..
    1ª au Pair dela..
    deve estar (como ela mesmo dissse).. mtoo ansiosa!
    Beijoss..
    aahh.. e se fossse eu: dispensaria!
    fica bem...

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  2. Bom... pra te falar a verdade (n fik brava comigo) eu entendo um monte de regras dela, afinal ela vai receber alguem de fora e por exemplo, falar de cigarro e bebida soa ridiculo pra nos, mas ela coloca mais como uma "certificação" eu acho... e talvez a family coloca essas regras mas sao flexiveis pra discutir e mudar dependendo da confiança q criam na au pair... de qlqr jeito eu concordo de dispensar, como ja te disse esse negocio de autismo complica um poko e trabalhar dia de sabado tbm n eh mto bom ne... mas ate q esse negocio de receber amigos ela disse q n sem aprovação... provavelmente se a au pair pedir ela n vai negar, acho q ela coloca as regras mais pra "manter a ordem" na casa sabe? bom... de qlqr jeito trabalhar sabado eh ruim! rs.. inda mais ate 7 da noite! dispensa msm! rs...

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  3. Oie Rafa!
    Essa é jogo duro! Achei algumas coisas desnecessárias e tb achei ela meio rígida.
    O pior é o Curfew! Se vc ainda fosse under 21... até entenderia (mas, tb não concordaria)... 1am? E a "niguiti"... cruel ela! rsrsrsrsrsr
    Porém, será que ela não pecou por vc ser a 1ª aupair dela?
    O importante é que não rolou tanto feeling assim, se rolasse vc ia... então... desejo sorte para a próxima!!!
    Bjs e se cuida Rafa!

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  4. Algumas sao aceitaveis, outras relevantes mas a maioria ABSURDAS! haha

    Vai aparecer a familia certa pra vc!
    Tenha certeza! E conselho: Tenta ao maximo nao pegar mais de 2 kids! Experiencia propria. HAHAHA

    Beijo

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  5. Oi, nossa.. então, acho que eles ainda não entendem mto bem o programa, ou estão falando mto desde ja, pq tem mta au pair por ai q nem assim faz um bom trabalho, ai agt q se da mal.. mas o curfew ai ta osso hein...
    sei la, as vezes tem vantangem ser a primeira au pair, mais ai não sei nao, entendi bem ou ela quer q vc se responsabilize por coisas q não fazem parte da rotina das kids? cozinha ? lixo da cozinha? viver em familia é uma coisa....
    Rafa... na hr certa a nossa familia aparece, e afinal agt não vai la de graça vamos gastar com o programa e ja q é assim temos de escolher mesmo!!!
    beijus

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  6. kkkkkk
    nao, naoo
    issooo é piaaadaa neh!?!?
    só podeee!!!
    onde ela pensa que esta??
    alias...
    oq ela pense q o rpograma é? algum tipo de regime militar!?!??
    tá pra ela!!!!
    pelo amorrr, espero que nenhuma menina aceite issoo!!!!

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